Dear Dr. Linda,
I’m writing because I have some questions about the symptoms of dysgraphia. Our four-year-old, Ethan, is having a real hard time learning to write. He still can’t remember how to write the letters of the alphabet, how to write the numbers or how to write his name.
What is the average age in which kids learn to write? Does this mean he has dysgraphia? Ethan’s Parents
Dear Ethan’s Parents,
Children all learn at different times. Writing is natural part of child development. Children begin writing at a very young age. Preschoolers enjoy using crayons, markers and pencils to communicate creative ideas and to copy adults’ writing. Usually, children start writing letters in the alphabet, numbers and their names anywhere from three to five.
This doesn’t mean that the penmanship is perfect or even near perfect. Many of the letters and numbers are backwards, the size varies and lower and upper case are mixed up. And it doesn’t mean a child has dysgraphia, even if these things sound like the symptoms of dysgraphia.
When a child has difficulty learning how to write the alphabet, numbers or his name, he may simply be too young. He may not be ready. If he is developmentally ready to write still can’t remember letters and numbers, it may be a memory issue, a motor problem or both.
Talk to your pediatrician and his preschool teacher about your concerns. You can contact your public school district to see if it has a service to help determine why Ethan is having difficulty learning these skills.
To get fun activities that help kids with writing, pick up a free copy of my Dysgraphia Toolkit: How Singing, Playing Games and Other Fun Activities Can Help Defeat Writing Disabilities.
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